The following links will most likely have that effect.
I whole heartedly agree with these writers and encourage you (guys & gals) to take a read.
It takes two to Tango.
#4 "A Womans role in "just talking"
All that being said, I have had a recent conversation with a good friend that reminded me that while this stage can be frustrating and is very real, there is a necessary "talking" season in all relationships. Whether or not it is allowed to progress into a painful cycle is dependent upon individual relationships.
By all means men, be intentional and clear (please) in what your looking for. Women, don't get sucked into thinking that this is all you can ever expect from a relationship. But remember not to confuse the "getting to know you" stage with the "we're just talking" phase. Talking has to happen. Don't rush it.
In the end, trust in the Lord. Pray about it. All of it. He is big enough to orchestrate every conversation.
All that being said, I have had a recent conversation with a good friend that reminded me that while this stage can be frustrating and is very real, there is a necessary "talking" season in all relationships. Whether or not it is allowed to progress into a painful cycle is dependent upon individual relationships.
By all means men, be intentional and clear (please) in what your looking for. Women, don't get sucked into thinking that this is all you can ever expect from a relationship. But remember not to confuse the "getting to know you" stage with the "we're just talking" phase. Talking has to happen. Don't rush it.
In the end, trust in the Lord. Pray about it. All of it. He is big enough to orchestrate every conversation.
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